Relationship Dilemma Remedies

A Blog About Solving Common Relationship Dilemmas

Getting Men to Talk

So many women would love to hear more from their men … about their day, about their friendships, about their hopes and dreams and about what is bothering them. Often men are just not as verbal as women … so what is a woman to do?

Here are some tips to try.

See this as a long-term project, not necessarily something that will happen quickly. Notice and appreciate each small step.

Focus a great deal on his positives and the positives of the relationship. A lot of men say that they do not talk because they fear criticism. After you have created an atmosphere of positively, men are more likely to open up.

Talk about your day, your struggles, your dreams … and then just be quiet. Some people … often men … formulate what they are going to say in their head before saying it out loud. Give him time to do that.

Want to read more tips?  Click here to be taken to the article “How Can I Get Him To Talk To Me?”

September 14, 2011 Posted by | Getting men to talk, men, men and communication, relationship advice for women | Leave a comment

Understanding Women: Ten Secrets Men Should Know About Women

Have you seen that coffee table book … the thick book, the one with the title “Everything Men Know About Women”?  When you open it up, every page is blank.

Women can be complicated and men are often perplexed about the best ways to treat them.  For help in understanding women, a man may talk with his guy friends … sometimes a good idea, sometimes not so good.  He may also talk with his female friends or relatives for help in understanding women … generally a better idea.

In reality, all women are not the same, so the best person to ask advice in understanding women is the woman herself.  Women love to talk about what they like and what makes them happy.  Some well-phrased questions are appreciated and flattering.

Just to get you started, however, here are some helpful hints to help you in your quest of understanding women and it might make a difference for you in your relationship.

Understanding Women:  Top Ten Secrets

1.  Women need to feel special. They really want their man to show that they have thought about them, what they want, and look for a way to make it happen.

Click here to read the rest of the article, The Top Ten Secrets About Women.

January 19, 2011 Posted by | Dating, dating advice, men, men and dating, relationship advice for women, Relationship Dilemmas, women and relationships | Leave a comment

7 Secrets Women Should Know About Men

Men think that women are complicated … well, men can be even more complicated!  If men could just be more like women life could be so much easier, at least some of the problems would not be there.

If men were more like women, then when a woman turns to a man and says “honey, we need to talk,” he would not immediately say … “whoops, meeting Bill at the bar to watch the game in 10 minutes.  Maybe next month we can talk.”

Shopping would surely be a breeze as well.  You could also count on a real opinion when you ask for a comment on your new dress or drapes.

Yes, we would miss a few things.  Some things more than others.  Women do have to spend a little time “figuring out their guy”.  Here are a few secrets to share.

Click here to read the 7 secrets.

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October 29, 2010 Posted by | advice, dating advice, marriage, men, relationship advice for women, women and relationships | 1 Comment